{"id":1168,"date":"2020-02-08T21:40:24","date_gmt":"2020-02-08T21:40:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/system.ams.al\/?p=1168"},"modified":"2020-02-17T22:19:32","modified_gmt":"2020-02-17T22:19:32","slug":"celesat-per-nje-martese-te-suksesshme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/system.ams.al\/en\/celesat-per-nje-martese-te-suksesshme\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7el\u00ebsat P\u00ebr Nj\u00eb Martes\u00eb T\u00eb Suksesshme"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7el\u00ebsat P\u00ebr Nj\u00eb Martes\u00eb T\u00eb Suksesshme<\/p>\n

SI MUND T\u00cb FUNKSIONOJ\u00cb\u00a0MARTESA?\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Duke mos patur nj\u00eb pik\u00eb referimi, filozofia laike e bot\u00ebs\u00a0ting\u00ebllon e mir\u00eb dhe e arsyeshme. Por, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj\u00a0filozofie, shumica e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve po d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb. Parimet e\u00a0Per\u00ebndis\u00eb n\u00eb Bib\u00ebl t\u00eb udh\u00ebheqin drejt t\u00eb qenit nj\u00eb kur flitet p\u00ebr\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie individuale. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ishte Per\u00ebndia q\u00eb e\u00a0krijoi martes\u00ebn, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb Ai e di se si duhet t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb ajo.\u00a0Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00ebritjetrin\u00a0n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pse u martuat vall\u00eb? P\u00ebr seks? P\u00ebr romanc\u00eb? Padiskutim p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri? P\u00ebr siguri? P\u00ebr t\u00eb patur f\u00ebmij\u00eb?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ka arsye t\u00eb mira q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00eb dhe ka edhe t\u00eb\u00a0atilla q\u00eb jan\u00eb f\u00ebminore. Komentet e m\u00ebposhtme jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0gjitha nga djem dhe vajza me mosh\u00eb nga 10 vje\u00e7 e posht\u00eb dhe\u00a0zbulojn\u00eb kuptimet e tyre t\u00eb thjeshta dhe qesharake q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00a0martes\u00ebn.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jona, 9 vje\u00e7: \u201cKur t\u00eb martohem, dua q\u00eb t\u00eb martohem me\u00a0nj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjat\u00eb, i pash\u00ebm, i pasur dhe q\u00eb e urren spinaqin si\u00a0un\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Arnoldi, 6 vje\u00e7: \u201cUn\u00eb dua t\u00eb martohem, po jo tani, sepse\u00a0ende nuk mund ta kaloj dot rrug\u00ebn vet\u00ebm.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Stivi, 10 vje\u00e7: \u201cUn\u00eb dua t\u00eb martohem me nj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si\u00a0mami im, po ama t\u00eb mos m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pastroj dhom\u00ebn time.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Bobi, 9 vje\u00e7: \u201cNuk dua t\u00eb martohem me nj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pasur,\u00a0vet\u00ebm t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb lek\u00eb se un\u00eb n\u00eb xhep.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Reimondi, 9 vje\u00e7: \u201cS\u00eb pari ajo duhet t\u00eb p\u00eblqej\u00eb pic\u00ebn, pastaj\u00a0duhet t\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb sandui\u00e7\u00ebt me djath\u00eb, pastaj duhet t\u2019i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb\u00a0karamelet; at\u00ebher\u00eb e di q\u00eb martesa jon\u00eb do t\u00eb zgjat\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne v\u00ebm\u00eb buz\u00ebn n\u00eb gaz kur lexojm\u00eb k\u00ebto p\u00ebrshtypje f\u00ebminore<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

megjithat\u00eb q\u00ebllimi i shum\u00eb \u00e7ifteve p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar nuk\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb i thell\u00eb se k\u00ebta q\u00eb pam\u00eb. Seneka, filozofi romak,\u00a0ka shkruar: \u201cJu duhet ta dini se p\u00ebr n\u00eb cilin port do t\u00eb lundroni,\u00a0n\u00ebse doni t\u00eb niseni me er\u00ebn e duhur q\u00eb t\u2019ju \u00e7oj\u00eb atje.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb problem n\u00eb shum\u00eb martesa sot \u00ebsht\u00eb se partner\u00ebt kan\u00eb\u00a0q\u00ebllime t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar. P\u00ebrfundimi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb burri\u00a0dhe gruaja n\u00ebnshkruajn\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim q\u00eb zgjat t\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn,\u00a0por lundrojn\u00eb drejt porteve t\u00eb ndryshme. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7udi q\u00eb n\u00eb\u00a0fakt ata t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb porte t\u00eb ndryshme dhe anija e tyre t\u00eb\u00a0ndahet n\u00eb dy pjes\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Q\u00eb t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb, ne kemi nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb:<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nT\u00eb zhvillojm\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin<\/span><\/h2>\n

T\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb si t\u00eb zgjidhim konfliktin me dashuri<\/span><\/p>\n

Duhet t\u00eb zbavitemi dhe ta mbajm\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb romanc\u00ebn<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm ndaj martes\u00ebs<\/span><\/p>\n

Zhvilloni shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Shoq\u00ebria me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e\u00a0martes\u00ebs. Burrat dhe grat\u00eb jan\u00eb shok\u00eb kur jan\u00eb miq t\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb\u00a0cil\u00ebve iu p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Per\u00ebndia e projektoi martes\u00ebn\u00a0q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie plot\u00ebsuese q\u00eb sjell k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi gjat\u00eb\u00a0gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs, nd\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb burri dhe nj\u00eb gruaje.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur burrat dhe grat\u00eb jan\u00eb shok\u00eb p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

ata\u00a0p\u00ebrsosin intimitetin, besimin dhe t\u00eb kuptuarit me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.\u00a0Ata jan\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb gdhendin n\u00eb nj\u00eb drejtim, kan\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim dhe\u00a0nj\u00eb plan t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Shoq\u00ebria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00eb apo t\u00eb qenit\u00a0nj\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb lidhje e dy njer\u00ebzve, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0bashkim trupi, shpirti dhe fryme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pastaj Zoti Per\u00ebndi tha: \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb\u00a0njeriu t\u00eb jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm; un\u00eb do t\u2019i b\u00ebj atij nj\u00eb\u00a0shoqe t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u201d.\u00a0Zanafilla 2:18<\/span><\/p>\n

Uniteti n\u00eb martes\u00eb krahasohet me g\u00ebrsh\u00ebr\u00ebt: dy pjes\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0bashkuara, q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ndahen kurr\u00eb. Tehet e g\u00ebrsh\u00ebr\u00ebve\u00a0zakonisht shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb drejtime t\u00eb ndryshme, por ato jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0fuqishmet kur bashkohen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Plani i Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr unitetin n\u00eb martes\u00eb q\u00ebndron n\u00eb thelb\u00a0t\u00eb q\u00ebllimit t\u00eb Tij p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzimin. Uniteti mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetohet n\u00eb\u00a0dy nivele: n\u00eb nivel vertikal me Per\u00ebndin\u00eb dhe horizontal me\u00a0nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. M\u00eb posht\u00eb do t\u00eb shikojm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien ton\u00eb\u00a0horizontale me bashk\u00ebshortin\/en.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bashk\u00ebshort\u00eb, jini shok p\u00ebr gruan tuaj<\/span><\/strong><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Shum\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00eb nuk e kuptojn\u00eb se, q\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0konsiderohet romantik nga gruaja e tij, duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb shok dhe i\u00a0muhabetit. Shumica e grave nuk duan q\u00eb burrat e tyre t\u2019u\u00a0p\u00ebrgjigjen pyetjeve t\u00eb tyre me nj\u00eb fjali. Ato duan disa holl\u00ebsi p\u00ebr\u00a0jet\u00ebn e bashk\u00ebshortit dhe duan t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb emocionalisht n\u00eb bised\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb duan q\u00eb burrat e tyre t\u2019i marrin k\u00ebto hapa dhe t\u2019i ndajn\u00eb\u00a0ato holl\u00ebsi, ato shqet\u00ebsime dhe ato d\u00ebshtime. Ato duan q\u00eb t\u2019u\u00a0lejohet t\u00eb hyjn\u00eb brenda jet\u00ebs s\u00eb burrit t\u00eb tyre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Biseda q\u00eb k\u00ebnaq nevoj\u00ebn e nj\u00eb gruaje duhet t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrqendrohet n\u00eb ngjarjet e dit\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, <\/span><\/h2>\n

njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ajo mund t\u00eb\u00a0ket\u00eb takuar dhe – mbi t\u00eb gjitha -si ndihet ajo p\u00ebr ata. Ajo d\u00ebshiron\u00a0v\u00ebmendje verbale.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndershm\u00ebri dhe p\u00ebr sinqeritet,\u00a0duan informacion t\u00eb sakt\u00eb p\u00ebr mendimet, ndjenjat, zakonet,\u00a0shijet, mosp\u00eblqimet, historit\u00eb personale, veprimtarit\u00eb e\u00a0p\u00ebrditshme dhe planet p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.\u00a0N\u00ebse bashk\u00ebshorti i tyre nuk komunikon ndersh\u00ebm dhe me\u00a0sinqeritet, besimi minohet, kurse ndjenjat e siguris\u00eb mund t\u00eb\u00a0shkat\u00ebrrohen p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ndershm\u00ebria dhe sinqeriteti ndihmojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar harmoni n\u00eb martes\u00eb<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Kur ju dhe bashk\u00ebshortja zbuloni hapur\u00a0fakte t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs tuaj, veprimtarit\u00eb tuaja t\u00eb sotme dhe planet\u00a0tuaja p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen, jeni n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb merrni vendime t\u00eb\u00a0zgjuara, t\u00eb cilat marrin parasysh ndjenjat e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Dhe ja\u00a0se si mund t\u00eb ndihmoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar harmoni: t\u00eb merrni\u00a0vendime q\u00eb funksionojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy ju nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Duke u\u00a0treguar t\u00eb ndersh\u00ebm me bashk\u00ebshortin tuaj, ju do t\u00eb ndiheni e\u00a0pranuar dhe e lir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb intime.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00eb fundi, burra, v\u00ebrjani gjthmon\u00eb veshin gjendjes emocionale t\u00eb gruas tuaj. <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Zbuloni nevojat e saj dhe kuptoni se ajo d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ju t\u2019i kushtoni koh\u00eb, v\u00ebmendje dhe ta kuptoni p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb e r\u00ebndon. Ndihmojeni at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet e qet\u00eb dhe e sigurt n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me ju. Kur ju luteni me t\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb, po e mbroni at\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht. Thoni: \u201cUn\u00eb dua t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoj Per\u00ebndis\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb bekoj\u00eb. Dua q\u00eb t\u2019ia parashtroj Per\u00ebndis\u00eb tani k\u00ebt\u00eb nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>ke n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Un\u00eb do t\u00eb lutem p\u00ebr ty gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dite.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bashk\u00ebshorte, jini shoqe p\u00ebr burrin tuaj<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Gra, a i p\u00eblqeni shok\u00ebt dhe shoqet q\u00eb ju respektojn\u00eb ashtu\u00a0si\u00e7 jeni? K\u00ebshtu, edhe burri juaj ka nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb ju ta respektoni. Ju\u00a0lutem, mos e ngat\u00ebrroni zem\u00ebrimin, k\u00ebrkesat dhe kritikat me\u00a0ndershm\u00ebrin\u00eb. Disa mendojn\u00eb se, n\u00ebse nuk i ndajn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha\u00a0ndjenjat e tyre me bashk\u00ebshortin, nuk po tregohen t\u00eb ndershme.\u00a0Sidoqoft\u00eb, tregon respekt t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb se si do t\u2019i pres\u00eb dikush\u00a0fjal\u00ebt tona p\u00ebrpara se t\u2019i themi. Karakteri dhe ndershm\u00ebria ecin\u00a0s\u00eb bashku.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kur ju dhe bashk\u00ebshorti tregoni ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit respekt t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

me sa duket ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jeni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin…t\u00eb\u00a0zbaviteni….t\u00eb jeni shok\u00eb. Nevoja p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri \u00e7lodh\u00ebse nd\u00ebrthur\u00a0dy nevoja n\u00eb nj\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uilard Harli thot\u00eb: \u201cNdodh shpesh tek femrat, kur ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb pamartuara, q\u00eb t\u2019u vihen pas meshkujve n\u00eb ndjekje t\u00eb interesave t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre. Ato e gjejn\u00eb veten duke gjuajtur, duke peshkuar, duke luajtur futboll dhe duke par\u00eb filma q\u00eb kurrsesi nuk do t\u2019i kishin zgjedhur t\u2019i shikonin vet\u00ebm. Pas martese, grat\u00eb shpesh p\u00ebrpiqen t\u2019i b\u00ebjn\u00eb burrat t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr veprimtarit\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb ato. N\u00ebse p\u00ebrpjekjet e tyre d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb,\u00a0<\/span>ato mund t\u2019i nxitin burrat e tyre q\u00eb t\u2019i vazhdojn\u00eb veprimtarit\u00eb\u00a0\u00e7lodh\u00ebse pa to. Un\u00eb e konsideroj k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje shum\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0rrezikshme p\u00ebr nj\u00eb martes\u00eb, sepse burrat i japin r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb\u00a0habitshme faktit q\u00eb t\u2019i ken\u00eb grat\u00eb e tyre si shoqe n\u00eb veprimtarit\u00eb\u00a0zbavit\u00ebse.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse sfera juaj e interesit nuk nd\u00ebrthuret me at\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit tuaj, do t\u00eb ve\u00e7oheni nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri. Ngaq\u00eb ka kaq\u00a0shum\u00eb or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, juve do t\u2019ju duhet t\u00eb zgjidhni: Un\u00eb mund t\u00eb\u00a0ndjek interesat e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta dhe ne do t\u00eb ecim s\u00eb bashku ose Un\u00eb\u00a0mund t\u00eb zgjedh interesat q\u00eb nuk i kemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta dhe ne do t\u00eb\u00a0ecim ve\u00e7.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Komunikoni qart\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin p\u00ebr interesat tuaja.\u00a0Zgjidhni t\u00eb ecni s\u00eb bashku.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n

T\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb si t\u00eb zgjidhim\u00a0konfliktin me dashuri<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ballafaqimi me dashuri k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t\u00eb besosh m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn\u00a0p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebshirosh t\u00eb b\u00ebsh m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr at\u00eb\u00a0person. N\u00ebse ju doni t\u00eb zbatoni ballafaqimin me dashuri, nuk\u00a0mund t\u00eb besoni se bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja juaj ka si synim t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb\u00a0argumentin dhe se ti nuk ke si synim t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh mbi\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortin\/en.<\/span><\/p>\n

Q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb hapur ndaj v\u00ebzhgimeve dhe kritikave t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit\/es k\u00ebrkohet nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim<\/span><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

i cili e sheh bashk\u00ebshortin\/en si shok dhe jo si armik. N\u00ebse ju e mendoni burrin apo gruan tuaj si armik, \u00e7do p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar do t\u00eb duket si ankim. At\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebr shkak se ju nuk d\u00ebgjoni,\u00a0<\/span>bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj do t\u2019i duhet ta p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb u tha dhe\u00a0t\u00eb dy do t\u00eb zini t\u2019i ankoheni nj\u00ebri-tjetrit.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja juaj nuk duhet ta\u00a0p\u00ebrplaste nj\u00eb problem pune tek ju, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e t\u00eb qenit\u00a0nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort i dashur, i cili d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb\u00a0ndihmoj\u00eb. Synimi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ndani me bashk\u00ebshortin\/en p\u00ebr hir\u00a0t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrqendroheni tek konflikti, i cili \u00e7on\u00a0n\u00eb izolim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Q\u00eb ta p\u00ebrs\u00ebrisim, \u00e7\u00ebshtja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebse ju fitoni apo\u00a0humbisni, por \u00e7\u00ebshtja \u00ebsht\u00eb se si e luani loj\u00ebn e konfliktit. N\u00ebse\u00a0komunikoni me respekt dhe merrni n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb ndjenjat e\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj, do t\u00eb fitoni q\u00eb t\u00eb dy \u00e7do her\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsojm\u00eb komunikimin<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ja di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar, ju burra. Grat\u00eb tona duan t\u00eb\u00a0shikojn\u00eb zemrat tona. Por, a e keni v\u00ebn\u00eb re se sa e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0t\u2019i flisni gruas suaj? Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb personi m\u00eb i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\u00a0n\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ne.<\/span><\/p>\n

Komunikimi i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb luks i d\u00ebshiruar n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha\u00a0llojet e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve. Asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e leht\u00eb, sa e folura\u00a0dhe asgj\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, sa komunikimi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb shpesh njer\u00ebzit e din\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb thon\u00eb, por\u00a0nuk din\u00eb se si ta thon\u00eb. <\/span><\/h2>\n

P\u00ebrdorimi i sakt\u00eb dhe me mjesht\u00ebri i\u00a0fjal\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e komunikimit, por p\u00ebr t\u2019ia\u00a0dal\u00eb mban\u00eb k\u00ebsaj ka di\u00e7ka edhe m\u00eb themelore: zhvillimi i atij\u00a0lloj q\u00ebndrimi q\u00eb ju jep juve d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtu, n\u00ebse ju keni problem t\u2019i flisni bashk\u00ebshortit apo\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortes suaj, nuk jeni e vetmja apo i vetmi. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka\u00a0e pavend, sepse gjithsecili e di se komunikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb i\u00a0r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb martes\u00eb. Merrni nj\u00eb revist\u00eb dhe lexoni artikuj\u00a0t\u00eb till\u00eb, si: \u201cDhjet\u00eb hapa p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar martes\u00ebn tuaj.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Komunikimi radhitet i pari. Shikoni nj\u00eb bised\u00eb televizive.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Keni p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar se \u201ckomunikimi\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb themeli i nj\u00eb martese.\u00a0Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb se shumica e \u00e7ifteve nuk din\u00eb se si t\u00eb\u00a0komunikojn\u00eb. Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tha nj\u00ebher\u00eb se t\u2019i fliste gruas s\u00eb tij ishte\u00a0si t\u00eb gjente vdekjen nga \u00e7ukitja e vazhdueshme e nj\u00eb rose. Nj\u00eb\u00a0komunikim i till\u00eb shpesh \u00e7on n\u00eb grindje. Uashington Irving ka shkruar se gjuha \u00ebsht\u00eb i vetmi mjet q\u00eb mprihet m\u00eb shum\u00eb, duke\u00a0u p\u00ebrdorur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse i k\u00ebrkoni shumic\u00ebs s\u00eb \u00e7ifteve t\u00eb \u201ckomunikojn\u00eb\u201d, ata\u00a0do t\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb flasin p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet dhe problemet e tyre,<\/span><\/h2>\n

ashtu\u00a0si\u00e7 b\u00ebjn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Kjo b\u00ebhet rutin\u00eb dhe\u00a0ata p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb grindje. \u201cKomunikimi? E provuam!\u201d Nj\u00eb\u00a0djal\u00eb tha nj\u00ebher\u00eb: \u201cNe komunikuam n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00ebn drejt divorcit.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Bibla thot\u00eb tek Fjal\u00ebt e Urta 10:19: \u201cN\u00eb fjal\u00ebt e shumta faji\u00a0nuk mungon.\u201d P\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur konfliktin, komunikimi duhet\u00a0b\u00ebr\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 duhet. Sfida \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh jasht\u00eb k\u00ebsaj rutine,\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb nuk keni folur kurr\u00eb m\u00eb\u00a0par\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni bashk\u00eb. A ju kujtohet ajo loja: \u201cN\u00ebse\u00a0do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb vizitonit nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb historike, cila do t\u00eb ishte\u00a0ajo?\u201d Kur \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin\/en ton\u00eb, ata hedhin\u00a0nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim brenda zemr\u00ebs son\u00eb. E din\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb dhe\u00a0nuk rrezikojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb grindemi. Sa m\u00eb e pamundur dhe m\u00eb\u00a0qesharake \u00e7\u00ebshtja, aq m\u00eb mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nd\u00ebrsa ju filloni t\u2019u drejtoheni \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve q\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00ebn tuaj<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

ne ju rekomandojm\u00eb serit\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet \u201cNd\u00ebrtuesit e Familjes\u201d. Sesionet kan\u00eb pyetje, t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb si q\u00ebllim t\u2019ju nxjerrin jasht\u00eb asaj rutine komunikimi, q\u00eb t\u2019i shikoni problemet nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim i ri. N\u00eb nj\u00eb grup \u201cNd\u00ebrtuesit e Familjes\u201d, do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri dhe do t\u00eb shikoni se gjithsecili p\u00ebrp\u00eblitet ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj, serit\u00eb \u201cNd\u00ebrtuesit e Familjes\u201d mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb zbavit\u00ebse!<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse ju doni t\u00eb dini m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr serit\u00eb \u201cNd\u00ebrtuesit e\u00a0Familjes\u201d, ju lutemi, na kontaktoni. Shih informacionin n\u00eb faqen\u00a0hyr\u00ebse.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ka edhe nj\u00eb faktor tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e\u00a0konfliktit: t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuarit.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ebgjoni v\u00ebrtet<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

P\u00ebrmir\u00ebsimi i komunikimit p\u00ebrmes d\u00ebgjimit t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsuar k\u00ebrkon q\u00ebndrimin dhe v\u00ebmendjen e duhur. N\u00ebse\u00a0jeni si shumica e njer\u00ebzve, mund t\u00eb keni d\u00ebgjuar shum\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00a0d\u00ebgjimin, \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb nga kontakti pamor tek d\u00ebgjimi p\u00ebrzgjedh\u00ebs\u00a0(t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm at\u00eb q\u00eb duam), deri tek matja e koh\u00ebs s\u00eb duhur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Grat\u00eb duket se jan\u00eb mjeshtre n\u00eb njohjen e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb matjes s\u00eb\u00a0koh\u00ebs. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, n\u00ebse ne nuk i njohim shum\u00eb mir\u00eb burrat\u00a0tan\u00eb, kjo nuk do t\u00eb vlej\u00eb pothuaj aspak.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ebgjimi i duhur nxit komunikimin dhe k\u00ebrkon\u00a0p\u00ebrkushtim. <\/span><\/h2>\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb studim p\u00ebr komunikimin u zbulua se: Ne e\u00a0kalojm\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs s\u00eb zgjimit duke komunikuar. \u00cbsht\u00eb\u00a0llogaritur se pothuajse gjysma e koh\u00ebs son\u00eb t\u00eb zgjimit kalon duke\u00a0d\u00ebgjuar. Apostulli Jakob thot\u00eb: \u201cGjithsecili, pra, le t\u00eb jet\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb\u00a0n\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar, i ngadalsh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb folur dhe i ngadalsh\u00ebm n\u00eb\u00a0zem\u00ebrim.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Por cili \u00ebsht\u00eb realiteti n\u00eb martes\u00eb? Ne e p\u00ebrmbysim k\u00ebt\u00eb apo jo? <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ne jemi t\u00eb ngadalt\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar, t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb folur dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb n\u00eb zem\u00ebrim. Shum\u00eb prej nesh nuk v\u00ebn\u00eb aparate ndihm\u00ebse d\u00ebgjimi, por ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin\/en ton\u00eb. D\u00ebgjimi i dob\u00ebt e ngurt\u00ebson komunikimin. D\u00ebgjimi i ngadalt\u00eb ka shkaktuar gjith\u00e7ka, q\u00eb nga mbytja e Titanikut deri tek p\u00ebrplasja e aeroplan\u00ebve, n\u00eb konfliktet\u00a0<\/span>mes burrave dhe grave. Kurse pseudod\u00ebgjimi sjell interes t\u00eb\u00a0shtirur.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ebgjimi i duhur p\u00ebrqendrohet tek v\u00ebmendja e mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00a0Ai nxit komunikimin. Kur d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, komentet e\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb jan\u00eb p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi kryesore. Ne e\u00a0p\u00ebrqendrojm\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen tek ai\/ajo dhe mbajm\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim\u00a0pranues dhe kemi nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb here, kthehem n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi tek f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb\u00a0cil\u00ebt duan q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj di\u00e7ka nga ajo q\u00eb po b\u00ebjn\u00eb ata. Ata\u00a0th\u00ebrrasin: \u201cBabi, babi!\u201d deri sa un\u00eb ta kthej fytyr\u00ebn drejt tyre\u00a0dhe t\u2019i shikoj.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cPo. \u00c7far\u00eb doni?\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Dhe Barbara do t\u2019iu thot\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve: \u201cPrisni pak, babi nuk\u00a0ka ardhur ende n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Por ata p\u00ebrgjigjen: \u201cPo ka ardhur. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebtu, fizikisht.\u00a0Ja ku \u00ebsht\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Ajo thot\u00eb: \u201cPo, e di, por ai ende nuk e di k\u00ebt\u00eb. Kini pak\u00a0durim.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ebgjim i duhur do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni t\u00eb kuptoni kur\u00a0dikush shpreh emocione. Mos b\u00ebni v\u00ebrejtje t\u00eb tilla, si: \u201cKjo s\u2019t\u00eb\u00a0thot\u00eb asgj\u00eb.\u201d \u201cTi nuk duhet t\u00eb ndihesh n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.\u201d \u201cKy\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb budallall\u00ebk.\u201d Komente si k\u00ebto nuk nxitin mir\u00ebkuptim, po\u00a0\u00e7ojn\u00eb drejt izolimit.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni duke mbajtur nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon\u00a0qart\u00ebsim. B\u00ebni pyetje dhe parafrazoni, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb kapni\u00a0kuptimin e mesazhit. Pyetjet jan\u00eb si levat q\u00eb i nxjerrin mendimet\u00a0dhe emocionet nga zemra e nj\u00eb personi tjet\u00ebr. Pyetjet e mira i\u00a0ndihmojn\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb shprehin ndjenjat e tyre.<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00ebgjoni me mendimin se mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitoni nga ajo q\u00eb\u00a0po komunikon bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja. Disa nga ne nuk duan q\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb po thot\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja, ngaq\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00eblqenim\u00a0m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb ishim rehat sesa t\u00eb ndryshonim. Nganj\u00ebher\u00eb\u00a0deklarimet e bashk\u00ebshortit\/es, t\u00eb cilat na l\u00ebndojn\u00eb pak, jan\u00eb ato\u00a0q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ecim n\u00eb drejtimin e duhur.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00eb fundi, d\u00ebgjoni me mendimin se bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb armiku. <\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb dhe nga kjo gj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja mund t\u00eb zem\u00ebrohet me ne. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Kur ne nuk e d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb thon\u00eb ata, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ata duhet ta thon\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Mund t\u2019i k\u00ebrkoni bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj q\u00eb t\u2019i shkruaj\u00eb k\u00ebrkesat n\u00eb flet\u00eb blloku me p\u00ebrmasa 3 x 5 dhe t\u2019i vendos\u00eb tek frigoriferi. Duke b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, do\u00a0<\/span>t\u2019ju kujtoj\u00eb blloku dhe jo bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrqendrohuni tek p\u00ebrmbajtja e mesazhit dhe jo tek\u00a0metoda e dh\u00ebnies s\u00eb tij. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

N\u00ebse bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja thot\u00eb: \u201cNuk m\u00eb\u00a0p\u00eblqen m\u00ebnyra se si po m\u00eb flet\u201d, d\u00ebgjojeni \u00e7far\u00eb po ju thot\u00eb.\u00a0Shmangeni reagimin emocional. P\u00ebrqendrohuni n\u00eb kuptimin e\u00a0asaj q\u00eb po p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019ju thot\u00eb dhe jo n\u00eb fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb po p\u00ebrdor. Disa\u00a0prej nesh mund t\u00eb mos punojn\u00eb n\u00eb profesionin e avokatit, por\u00a0n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ne v\u00ebm\u00eb re \u00e7do fjal\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse i ktheni p\u00ebrgjigje bashk\u00ebshortit\/es me po ato fjal\u00eb q\u00eb ju\u00a0tha, at\u00ebher\u00eb mos prisni t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb me ju ndjenjat e tij\/saj t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta.<\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrqendrohuni n\u00eb qart\u00ebsimin e pikave t\u00eb vlefshme dhe jo n\u00eb nj\u00eb mbrojtje prej akuzave t\u00eb pasakta.<\/span><\/h2>\n

P\u00ebrqendrohuni m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet sesa n\u00eb padit\u00eb. Ndoshta mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb mire q\u00eb ndihmon t\u00eb kuptuarit dhe jo gjykimin. Dikush ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cI rrall\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb personi, i cili mund t\u2019i peshoj\u00eb fajet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve pa e v\u00ebn\u00eb gishtin n\u00eb peshore.\u201d Ne priremi t\u00eb peshojm\u00eb fajet e bashk\u00ebshortit\/es me kujdes t\u00eb madh dhe pastaj i shtojm\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>vijat e matjes n\u00eb favorin ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mbani mend, d\u00ebgjimi i p\u00ebrqendruar e hedh posht\u00eb\u00a0konfliktin dhe nd\u00ebrton unitetin. Uordsuorthi ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cAi q\u00eb\u00a0ka nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb mir\u00eb nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr pasqyr\u00eb.\u201d Ti dhe un\u00eb kemi\u00a0nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb na d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb, dikush q\u00eb na kupton dhe do t\u2019i\u00a0pasqyroj\u00eb mendimet dhe ndjenjat tona p\u00ebrs\u00ebri tek ne.<\/span><\/p>\n

Po, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb ta d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin\/en\u00a0ton\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur duhet zgjidhur nj\u00eb konflikt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ballafaqohuni me dashuri<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Zgjidhja e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e konfliktit k\u00ebrkon ballafaqim me dashuri. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshjet ndodhin p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra \u201ct\u00eb m\u00ebdha\u201d n\u00eb jet\u00eb: \u00e7\u00ebshtje familjare, financa, dallime fetare etj., kurse shpesh ballafaqimi ndodh p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat e vogla n\u00eb jet\u00eb, si m\u00ebnyra se si fle bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja, me apo pa batanije, me dritare hapur apo mbyllur. Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb na shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si e nget makin\u00ebn bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja apo se si shfryjn\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>hund\u00ebt, si han\u00eb ushqimin, si p\u00ebrtypin \u00e7am\u00e7akiz, muzika q\u00eb\u00a0d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb, rrobat q\u00eb veshin dhe k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ballafaqimi me dashuri do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb thuash t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn\u00a0me dashuri. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Dashuria i beson t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat. Ajo nuk shpreson\u00a0m\u00eb t\u00eb keqen, beson m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr personin tjet\u00ebr. Kjo nuk do\u00a0t\u00eb thot\u00eb se bash\u00ebshorti\/ja do t\u2019jua hedh\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Afrojuni ballafaqimit me kujdes dhe kontrolloni motivin\u00a0tuaj. Do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb apo do t\u2019ju l\u00ebndoj\u00eb? Do t\u00eb sjell\u00eb sh\u00ebrim\u00a0dhe bashkim apo izolim t\u00eb m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm? A rrjedh synimi i\u00a0ballafaqimit nga nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr e past\u00ebr, nga nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegje e mir\u00eb\u00a0dhe nj\u00eb besim i sinqert\u00eb?<\/span><\/p>\n

Kontrolloni sjelljen tuaj. Ballafaqimi me dashuri thot\u00eb: Un\u00eb kujdesem p\u00ebr ty. Un\u00eb t\u00eb respektoj. Pra, Un\u00eb dua q\u00eb ti t\u00eb m\u00eb respektosh. Dua t\u00eb di se si ndihesh ti. Mos akuzoni. Mos i hipni buldozerit p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtypur personin tjet\u00ebr. Nukduhet t\u00eb nxirrni kazm\u00ebn dhe rr\u00ebmoni. Mos merrni nj\u00eb kamion pleh\u00ebrash dhe shkarkoni aty ngarkes\u00ebn e tij. Afrojuni k\u00ebtyre gj\u00ebrave me dashuri.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kontrolloni rrethanat: koh\u00ebn, vendin dhe mjedisin. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Para\u00a0s\u00eb gjithash, kontrolloni koh\u00ebn. P\u00ebr shembull, koha kur nj\u00eb grua\u00a0mund t\u00eb zhvilloj\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb ashp\u00ebr me burrin e saj p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u00a0nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb kur i shoqi sapo ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pas pun\u00ebs.\u00a0Gjithashtu, mos e kund\u00ebrshtoni dhe mos e qortoni\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortin\/en para t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Kurr\u00eb! Dhe, n\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb je n\u00eb nj\u00eb dark\u00eb festive apo je p\u00ebr dark\u00eb me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, mos e tall\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortin\/en.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kini mendjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb trysnish t\u00eb tjera ushtrojn\u00eb\u00a0ndikim. Jini t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodh n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj dhe pyeteni veten n\u00ebse jeni gati t\u00eb pranoni\u00a0ballafaqimin. N\u00ebse ballafaqoheni me bashk\u00ebshortin\/en, mund\u00a0t\u00eb ket\u00eb gj\u00ebra rezerv\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb gardhit q\u00eb mund t\u2019jua\u00a0v\u00ebrvisin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fokusi i ballafaqimit me dashuri<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Kur ballafaqoheni, fokusohuni m\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje sesa\u00a0n\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje. Fokusohuni tek problemi, p\u00ebr shembull, tek\u00a0buxheti dhe jo tek personi, tek shpenzimi i b\u00ebr\u00eb me kopraci. Ju\u00a0keni nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb buxhet dhe duhet t\u00eb punoni brenda\u00a0kufizimeve t\u00eb planeve p\u00ebr financat, por buxheti t\u00eb jet\u00eb\u00a0kund\u00ebrshtari. Shikoni se \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb keni dhe vini buxhetin\u00a0n\u00eb fokus, jo personin tjet\u00ebr.<\/span><\/p>\n

Jini t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebni personin tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihet sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb ai kund\u00ebrshtari<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Fokusohuni tek sjellja m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa tek karakteri. Kjo\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, sepse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e vrasim karakterin e\u00a0dikujt dhe (shkojm\u00eb drejt e n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb qenies s\u00eb tyre) dhe i\u00a0godasim drejt e n\u00eb zem\u00ebr. Duhet t\u00eb themi: \u201cA e di, kur e b\u00ebre at\u00eb\u00a0gj\u00eb, un\u00eb u ndjeva k\u00ebshtu e k\u00ebshtu.\u201d -dhe jo ta akuzoni p\u00ebr\u00a0karakterin q\u00eb ka. Fokusohuni n\u00eb ve\u00e7antit\u00eb e tyre dhe jo n\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsime t\u00eb tilla, si: \u201cTi e b\u00ebn gjithmon\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\u201d ose: \u201cTi nuk\u00a0je kurr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu.\u201d Fokusohuni n\u00eb shprehjen e ndjenjave, se si ju\u00a0b\u00ebri kjo gj\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni dhe jo n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjykim t\u00eb karakterit.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Duhet t\u00eb okukoheni n\u00eb v\u00ebzhgimin e fakteve dhe jo n\u00eb gjykimin e motiveve. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Fokusohuni tek mir\u00ebkuptimi dhe jo se kush po humb ose po fiton. Kur jeni n\u00eb ballafaqim, kur bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja vjen, d\u00ebgjoni me kujdes at\u00eb q\u00eb thuhet dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk thuhet. D\u00ebgjoni se \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk po thon\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja juaj ose burri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i zem\u00ebruar\u00a0p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe ju nuk po merrni asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa\u00a0djegia nga kjo trysni n\u00eb pun\u00eb apo e atij problemi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kjo\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb e mbartur n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj. Ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb\u00a0b\u00ebjn\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb hapin nj\u00eb valvol, t\u00eb\u00a0ndalojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb frym\u00eb thell\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast dhe k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb\u00a0kuptojn\u00eb veten dhe tjetrin.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mbani mend, t\u00eb tregosh gj\u00ebrat me dashuri zvog\u00eblon\u00a0konfliktin dhe nd\u00ebrton unitetin. S\u00ebrish, \u00e7\u00ebshtja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0humb\u00ebsh apo t\u00eb fitosh, por t\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb. Disa prej nesh ndihen\u00a0k\u00ebshtu: N\u00ebse un\u00eb do t\u00eb humbas, at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb fundosem bashk\u00eb me ty.\u00a0Dhe n\u00ebse un\u00eb do t\u00eb fundosem, at\u00ebher\u00eb edhe ti do t\u00eb mbytesh. Pra,\u00a0p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb gjitha llojet e manovrave q\u00eb ta rr\u00ebzojm\u00eb personin\u00a0tjet\u00ebr. Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar intimitet.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb jetike p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb\u00a0ballafaqohen me dashuri, por gjithashtu t\u00eb falin plot dashuri.<\/span><\/p>\n

Falja<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Shum\u00eb prej nesh vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb emocione negative dhe\u00a0t\u00eb sjellin nd\u00ebr mend gabimet e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs. \u00cbsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se ne\u00a0jemi m\u00eb pak t\u00eb lodhur nga mali q\u00eb ngjisim sesa nga kokrrizat\u00a0irrituese t\u00eb r\u00ebr\u00ebs q\u00eb kemi n\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb – r\u00ebr\u00eb e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs. Ne duhet\u00a0t\u2019i ndihmojm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt\/et t\u2019i heqin k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt dhe t\u2019i\u00a0shkundin ato guri\u00e7ka apo dhera.<\/span><\/p>\n

Robert Shulleri ka th\u00ebn\u00eb:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Askush nuk i rr\u00ebzon njer\u00ebzit e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa vetja e tyre …\u00a0p\u00ebrkundrazi, duhet t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb dik\u00eb, i cili do t\u00eb besoj\u00eb tek ne dhe do t\u00eb na<\/span><\/p>\n

ngrej\u00eb. … Ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kemi nevoj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dikush q\u00eb ta kemi n\u00eb krah dhe q\u00eb beson tek ne, dikush q\u00eb t\u00eb na ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb dalim nga gropat\u00a0<\/span>thith\u00ebse t\u00eb r\u00ebr\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ju mbani \u00e7el\u00ebsat e dashuris\u00eb<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

pranimit dhe faljes q\u00eb mund\u00a0t\u00eb hapin burgun e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs dhe ta lini bashk\u00ebshortin\/en t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb dashurin\u00eb dhe pranimin. Ju mund t\u00eb ndihmoni n\u00eb\u00a0\u00e7lirimin e bashk\u00ebshortit\/es nga kujtimet e bezdisshme. Kini\u00a0parasysh m\u00ebnyrat q\u00eb jepen m\u00eb posht\u00eb p\u00ebrmes t\u00eb cilave mund t\u00eb\u00a0ndihmoni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en tuaj t\u00eb merret me t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 Nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie martesore duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet mbi nj\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm t\u00eb bazuar n\u00eb dashuri:<\/span><\/h2>\n

\u201cDashuria e p\u00ebrsosur e largon frik\u00ebn\u201d (1 Gjon 4:18). Ju nuk mund t\u00eb rrezikoni duke i fshehur di\u00e7ka t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj, ndonj\u00eb dhimbje n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb shkaktuar prej nj\u00eb faji apo turpi t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs q\u00eb tani ju akuzon duke th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cMos e trego k\u00ebt\u00eb! Ai\/ajo do t\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb!\u201d N\u00ebse po p\u00ebrjetoni k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj po kontrollohet nga frika, jo nga dashuria. Kur dashuria has n\u00eb gabimet e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs tek i\/e dashuri\/a, ajo thot\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoj. Un\u00eb t\u00eb pranoj. DmthUn\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj. Po, un\u00eb t\u00eb fal.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb sjell\u00eb me vete detajet e dhimbshme t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj martesore<\/span><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Holl\u00ebsirat\u00a0mund t\u00eb ngjallin imagjinat\u00ebn, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritni\u00a0nj\u00eb sken\u00eb apo nj\u00eb ngjarje. Ato mund t\u2019ju tundojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0d\u00ebnoni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en. B\u00ebjani t\u00eb qart\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit\/<\/span>es q\u00eb e doni pa kushte dhe q\u00eb jeni gjithnj\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr\u00a0t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 Sigurojeni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en tuaj se \u201ce pranoni edhe m\u00eb\u00a0shum\u00eb\u201d, pa marr\u00eb parasysh se \u00e7far\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb. Nj\u00eb nga\u00a0frik\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb\u00a0zbulimi se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe pastaj mohimi.\u00a0Nevoja m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb ka bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0siguria p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkushtim dhe dashuri t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme. Nj\u00eb\u00a0mjedis i \u201ct\u00eb pranuarit edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb\u201d krijon nj\u00eb klim\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrshtatshme p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrim dhe p\u00ebr rritje.<\/span>
\n\u2022 Sigurohuni q\u00eb premtimet t\u2019i mb\u00ebshtesni me pranim real.\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Mos ia p\u00ebrplasni n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn bashk\u00ebshortit\/es.\u00a0Kurr\u00eb! Kjo do t\u00eb komunikoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm mohim dhe do t\u00eb\u00a0mbjell\u00eb far\u00ebrat e mosbesimit. P\u00ebrkundrazi, zhvilloni\u00a0vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimin e tij duke e pranuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0vazhdueshme.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pali shkruan n\u00eb Bib\u00ebl: <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u201cDuke harruar at\u00eb q\u00eb gjendet prapa (pra,\u00a0t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn) dhe duke u turrur drejt asaj q\u00eb gjendet p\u00ebrpara (drejt\u00a0s\u00eb ardhmes), un\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul drejt q\u00ebllimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar \u00e7mimin\u00a0e thirrjes s\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb Per\u00ebndis\u00eb n\u00eb Krishtin Jezus.\u201d Pali shikonte\u00a0p\u00ebrpara (drejt s\u00eb ardhmes). Ndihmojeni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en tuaj\u00a0q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn me ju sot dhe prisni me padurim t\u00eb\u00a0ardhmen.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zbavituni dhe mbajeni t\u00eb gjall\u00eb romanc\u00ebn<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb kishte afro 15 vjet martuar, shkoi n\u00eb nj\u00eb banket\u00a0dhe tha: \u201cUn\u00eb u ula aty pran\u00eb burrit tim nd\u00ebrsa fol\u00ebsi po fliste\u00a0p\u00ebr romanc\u00ebn n\u00eb martes\u00eb. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb m\u00eb kishin v\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb aparat\u00a0q\u00eb tregonte t\u00eb rrahurat e zemr\u00ebs p\u00ebr burrin, ai do t\u00eb tregonte nj\u00eb\u00a0vij\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Tani s\u2019k\u00ebnaqemi m\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. E kemi l\u00ebn\u00eb\u00a0pas dore martes\u00ebn, na sjell m\u00ebrzi.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb interesante se kur i vijm\u00eb rrotull bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit vjen natyrsh\u00ebm – \u00ebsht\u00eb sheqeri\u00a0dhe er\u00ebzat p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Kur martohemi, t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqurit\u00a0e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit \u00ebsht\u00eb ruajt\u00ebsi i k\u00ebsaj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje. Kur themi: \u201cE\u00a0di q\u00eb ia vlen v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsh ty\u201d, e nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortin\/en ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb shpesh \u00e7iftet ndalojn\u00eb s\u00eb k\u00ebnaquri nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie martesore. Ka tri arsye p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. E para, provimi mbaroi; \u00e7mimi u fitua. Meq\u00eb e fituam personin, e l\u00ebm\u00eb pas dore ose romanc\u00ebn n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien ton\u00eb e rr\u00ebmben m\u00ebrzia. E dyta, fjal\u00ebt helmuese mposhtin ato t\u00eb mirat, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ne b\u00ebhemi nx\u00ebn\u00ebs m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar lidhur me bashk\u00ebshortin\/en ton\u00eb, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb asaj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb, pohuese\u00a0<\/span>dhe e p\u00eblqyeshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

E treta, realiteti fiton mbi romanc\u00ebn.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Faturat, gatimi, larja e rrobave dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dalin mbi ndjenjat\u00a0romantike. Nj\u00eb rrjedh\u00eb emocionale q\u00eb do t\u2019i merrte me vete t\u00eb\u00a0dy personat, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqnin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin,\u00a0z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohet ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nga zem\u00ebrimi dhe hidh\u00ebrimi q\u00eb e\u00a0kthejn\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebrzi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ja pse \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb apo grua t\u00eb\u00a0zbatoj\u00eb v\u00ebrtet tri parimet p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. <\/span><\/h2>\n

S\u00eb pari, studjoni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en; p\u00ebrkushtojuni me gjith\u00eb mend njohjes s\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit\/es dhe shikoni se \u00e7far\u00eb e k\u00ebnaq at\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb e komunikon kujdesin tuaj? \u00c7far\u00eb i komunikon vler\u00ebsim dhe dashuri bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj? N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb?<\/span><\/p>\n

Shum\u00eb prej nesh e duam tjetrin ashtu si\u00e7 do t\u00eb donim t\u00eb\u00a0na donte bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja. Por ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ta\u00a0l\u00ebm\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb t\u00eb na duan, t\u00eb futemi\u00a0n\u00eb programin e bashk\u00ebshortit\/es dhe t\u00eb marrim vesh se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb\u00a0ka nevoj\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Punoni seriozisht p\u00ebr ta mbajtur gjall\u00eb romanc\u00ebn dhe interesin n\u00eb martes\u00ebn tuaj<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ka disa armiq t\u00eb romanc\u00ebs n\u00eb \u00e7do\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie: m\u00ebrzitja, parashikueshm\u00ebria, lodhja dhe trysnia.\u00a0K\u00ebto gj\u00ebra kan\u00eb grabitur shum\u00eb prej marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve t\u00eb martes\u00ebs\u00a0nga romanca e tyre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zbavituni bashk\u00eb dhe shijoni p\u00ebrs\u00ebri koh\u00ebn kur i vinit\u00a0rrotull nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. Shikoni ose luani sport s\u00eb bashku, b\u00ebni\u00a0sh\u00ebtitje t\u00eb gjata – \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni, shijoheni s\u00eb bashku jet\u00ebn!\u00a0Mbani sh\u00ebnim ato q\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqin me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin\/en\u00a0tuaj. Nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\/e, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb tjetrin, punon v\u00ebrtet\u00a0q\u00eb ta mbaj\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00eb romanc\u00ebn dhe interesin dhe e\u00a0studion bashk\u00ebshortin\/en.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pyesni veten: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb i solli nj\u00eb ndjesi aventure\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies ton\u00eb? <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb na dha nj\u00eb ndjesi romance, kureshtjeje\u00a0dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit?\u201d A do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb\u00a0nj\u00eb e papritur e k\u00ebndshme t\u00eb b\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja nuk\u00a0e pret (si psh. t\u2019i b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb t\u00eb papritur t\u00eb k\u00ebndshme duke e marr\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebr dark\u00eb jasht\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa l\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u00eb kujdeset\u00a0p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt).<\/span><\/p>\n

Dashuria k\u00ebrkon edhe sakrific\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtira nga t\u00eb gjitha. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e shikojm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin\/en dhe duam t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb gj\u00ebja q\u00eb komunikon dashuri, romanc\u00eb dhe aventur\u00eb ndodhet n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb do t\u00eb na kushtojn\u00eb di\u00e7ka, sepse mund t\u00eb mos na jepet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr at\u00eb gj\u00eb. Na duhet t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb kund\u00ebr prirjes son\u00eb natyrore p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur rrug\u00ebn e leht\u00eb. Sakrifica k\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb. Kjo k\u00ebrkon\u00a0<\/span>q\u00eb t\u2019u thuash \u201cjo\u201d gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u2019i thuash \u201cpo\u201d\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb sakrific\u00eb mund t\u00eb quhet kur nj\u00eb grua vendos nevojat e burrit t\u00eb saj p\u00ebrpara atyre t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb saj<\/span><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Praktikisht, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb grat\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuara ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve sesa ndaj burrave. Ato i lejojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u2019i manipulojn\u00eb (dhe meq\u00eb ra fjala, burrat i lejojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb t\u2019i manipulojn\u00eb t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrit). Dhe si p\u00ebrfundim, martesa fillon t\u00eb humbas\u00eb form\u00ebn. Dhe \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbaj\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb ruan <\/span>marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e vet.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kjo gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb nuk do t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0gjitha gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ajo d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj. Kjo mund\u00a0t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, sepse instiktet m\u00ebm\u00ebsore jan\u00eb t\u00eb forta\u00a0p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn e grave. P\u00ebr shembull, ajo mund t\u00eb mos doj\u00eb t\u2019i\u00a0\u00e7oj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur dhe t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb disa pun\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme pa\u00a0b\u00ebr\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb koh\u00eb me burrin e saj. Por, duhet q\u00eb\u00a0ajo t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb vet\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb (ndoshta me ndihm\u00ebn e babit). N\u00ebse burri\u00a0fillon q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet i mohuar, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia mund ta humbas\u00eb\u00a0ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Puna e\u00a0burrit fillon ta t\u00ebrheq\u00eb at\u00eb larg e m\u00eb larg nga gruaja dhe ai nuk i\u00a0thot\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d pun\u00ebs, q\u00eb t\u2019i thot\u00eb \u201cpo\u201d gruas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr ku sakrifikojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet\u00a0dhuratave t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb kortezis\u00eb q\u00eb i b\u00ebjm\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortes duke\u00a0i hapur asaj der\u00ebn, duke e pritur, duke mos ecur p\u00ebrpara\u00a0saj, duke i shprehur se e \u00e7mojm\u00eb n\u00eb tavolin\u00ebn e buk\u00ebs, duke e\u00a0mb\u00ebshtetur para f\u00ebmij\u00ebve apo para njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Gjeni nj\u00eb\u00a0m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rigjall\u00ebruar mir\u00ebsjelljet e zakonshme n\u00eb\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj martesore. Nj\u00eb sakrific\u00eb n\u00eb thelbin e saj thot\u00eb:\u00a0Jeta ime p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde dhe un\u00eb zgjedh ta jap jet\u00ebn time p\u00ebr\u00a0t\u00ebnden.<\/span><\/p>\n

Asnj\u00eb martes\u00eb nuk ka romanc\u00eb, ledhatime dhe shk\u00ebndija gjat\u00eb\u00a0gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs. <\/span><\/h2>\n

T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kalojm\u00eb n\u00eb stin\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Jeta ka\u00a0m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb na rr\u00ebzuar, por ju duhet t\u00eb punoni p\u00ebr ta\u00a0b\u00ebr\u00eb romanc\u00ebn dhe zbavitjen p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj.\u00a0Osvald \u00c7emb\u00ebrs ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNatyra njer\u00ebzore, n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e\u00a0sh\u00ebndetshme, k\u00ebrkon ngaz\u00ebllim dhe n\u00ebse nuk e p\u00ebrfton\u00a0ngaz\u00ebllimin e d\u00ebshiruar n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e drejt\u00eb, do ta k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb n\u00eb<\/span><\/p>\n

rrug\u00ebn e gabuar. Per\u00ebndia nuk krijon kurr\u00eb stoik\u00eb pa gjak. Ai\u00a0krijon shenjtor\u00eb t\u00eb zjarrt\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Po, Per\u00ebndia na krijoi q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi njer\u00ebz t\u00eb apasionuar ndaj\u00a0nj\u00ebri-tjetrit.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb shprehim ndjenjat e brendshme<\/span><\/strong><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Shprehja e ndjenjave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eblloj si marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia\u00a0seksuale. Burra, grat\u00eb tona i \u00e7mojn\u00eb dhe kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr fjal\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0buta dhe prekje dashurie – nj\u00eb p\u00ebrqafim ose nj\u00eb ledhatim n\u00eb\u00a0fytyr\u00eb, pa k\u00ebrkesa seksuale. Kryerja e k\u00ebsaj do t\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0dua zem\u00ebr e vog\u00ebl dhe un\u00eb kujdesem p\u00ebr ty.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Un\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb list\u00eb t\u00eb disa gj\u00ebrave p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat mendoj\u00a0se ne duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrg\u00ebzojm\u00eb apo t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb komplimenta grave.\u00a0(Disa prej k\u00ebtyre i nxora nga libri K\u00ebnga e K\u00ebng\u00ebve q\u00eb gjendet\u00a0n\u00eb Bib\u00ebl.) Un\u00eb besoj se ne duhet t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb komplimenta grave\u00a0p\u00ebr bukurin\u00eb, feminitetin, pun\u00ebn e palodhur, p\u00ebr besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb\u00a0ndaj Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe familjes. Ne e konsiderojm\u00eb si di\u00e7ka normale\u00a0p\u00ebr gruan kur pirgjet e rrobave t\u00eb palara p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb disi n\u00eb\u00a0m\u00ebnyr\u00eb misterioze n\u00eb sirtar\u00ebt tan\u00eb gati p\u00ebr t\u2019u veshur.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00ebjini komplimenta gruas p\u00ebr bukurin\u00eb e saj, <\/span><\/h2>\n

p\u00ebr personalitetin e saj dhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e krijoi at\u00eb Per\u00ebndia. B\u00ebjini komplimenta p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e saj, p\u00ebr mikpritjen dhe p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb ju p\u00ebrgjigjet juve si bashk\u00ebshort. Pra, b\u00ebjini komplimenta p\u00ebr k\u00ebshill\u00ebn dhe sugjerimin e saj, dhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si t\u00eb nxit t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb drejtimin e duhur. B\u00ebjini komplimenta p\u00ebr karakterin e saj, p\u00ebr aft\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb vish n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me padurim kur je larg (q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb magnet). S\u00eb fundi, b\u00ebjini komplimenta p\u00ebr miq\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqe, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorte shpirt\u00ebrore n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ide p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur bashk\u00ebshorti\/en t\u00ebnd\/e<\/strong><\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Gj\u00ebra q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur bashk\u00ebshorten\u00a0e tij:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Nxirr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr pak or\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \u00c7oje at\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb piknik q\u00eb ju e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Rregullo sifonin e lavamanit q\u00eb pikon.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. L\u00ebri nj\u00eb pusull\u00eb dashurie…n\u00ebn jast\u00ebk, n\u00eb kulet\u00eb, n\u00eb xhep\u00a0etj.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. B\u00ebj t\u00eb gjitha p\u00ebrgatitjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngr\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb dark\u00eb jasht\u00eb, p.sh.\u00a0telefonojini dados s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, b\u00ebni rezervime p\u00ebr dark\u00eb dhe\u00a0mund\u00ebsisht q\u00ebndroni p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur n\u00eb hotel.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. L\u00ebri nj\u00eb sh\u00ebnim, qoft\u00eb edhe pa arsye – ndoshta di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju\u00a0sjell n\u00eb mendje q\u00eb t\u00eb dyve nj\u00eb kujtim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. P\u00ebrdor telefonin. Telefonoji vet\u00ebm t\u2019i thuash: \u201cUn\u00eb t\u00eb dua\u00a0dhe po mendoja p\u00ebr ty.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

8. B\u00ebj di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e b\u00ebje kur u takove n\u00eb fillim dhe kur dilnit s\u00eb\u00a0bashku.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gj\u00ebra q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb grua p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur bashk\u00ebshortin\u00a0e saj:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

1.Shkruaji nj\u00eb let\u00ebr dhe d\u00ebrgojeni n\u00eb zyr\u00ebn e tij ose vini nj\u00eb\u00a0pusull\u00eb dashurie n\u00eb \u00e7ant\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb pun\u00ebs etj.<\/span><\/p>\n

2.P\u00ebrgatit gjell\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb preferuar.<\/span><\/p>\n

3.Rregulloje q\u00eb t\u00eb dilni n\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje vet\u00ebm ju t\u00eb dy.<\/span><\/p>\n

4.Vish rrobat q\u00eb i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe krihi flok\u00ebt si\u00e7 i\u00a0p\u00eblqejn\u00eb atij.<\/span><\/p>\n

5.Vish rrob\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb preferuar t\u00eb nat\u00ebs.<\/span><\/p>\n

6.Jepi nj\u00eb fotografi me korniz\u00eb t\u00eb bukur ku keni dal\u00eb ju ose\u00a0ju me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, q\u00eb ta mbaj\u00eb n\u00eb zyr\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

7.\u00c7oji f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb flen\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebrgatit nj\u00eb dark\u00eb n\u00ebn drit\u00ebn\u00a0e qirinjve.<\/span><\/p>\n

8.B\u00ebj di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqte at\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur dilnit n\u00eb fillim.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ne nuk martohemi p\u00ebr ta harruar bashk\u00ebshortin. Ne\u00a0martohemi sepse e d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb intimitetin dhe p\u00ebrkushtimin.\u00a0Zbavitja dhe mbajtja gjall\u00eb e romanc\u00ebs jan\u00eb pa diskutim elemente\u00a0t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb. Sidoqoft\u00eb,\u00a0duhet m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kaq … p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet nj\u00eb plan.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00ebni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

K\u00ebshtu Per\u00ebndia krijoi njeriun sipas\u00a0sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, sipas sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyr\u00ebs s\u00eb\u00a0Per\u00ebndis\u00eb; Ai krijoi mashkullin dhe femr\u00ebn\u00a0\u2026P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye njeriu do t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb baban\u00eb dhe\u00a0n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij dhe do t\u00eb bashkohet me gruan e tij,\u00a0dhe do t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb mish i vet\u00ebm.\u00a0Zanafilla 1:27 dhe 2:24<\/span><\/p>\n

Tregohet nj\u00eb histori p\u00ebr nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb pasur, i cili b\u00ebri nj\u00eb\u00a0fest\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje miqve. Para fest\u00ebs e\u00a0mbushi pishin\u00ebn plot me krokodil\u00eb t\u00eb uritur. Kur u mblodh\u00ebn\u00a0t\u00eb gjith\u00eb miqt\u00eb, ai hodhi nj\u00eb monedh\u00eb dollari t\u00eb argjendt\u00eb n\u00eb\u00a0pishin\u00eb dhe tha: \u201cN\u00ebse ka njeri q\u00eb ta marr\u00eb at\u00eb monedh\u00eb, do t\u2019i\u00a0jap nj\u00eb milion dollar\u00eb, tok\u00ebn time dhe vajz\u00ebn time p\u00ebr grua.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Nuk e kishte mbaruar akoma fjal\u00ebn kur u d\u00ebgjua nj\u00eb p\u00ebrplasje n\u00eb uj\u00eb. <\/span><\/h2>\n

Nj\u00eb burr\u00eb brenda n\u00eb pishin\u00eb. Ai luftoi 35 minuta kund\u00ebr krokodil\u00ebve dhe n\u00eb fund, kur i mposhti, u zhyt n\u00eb fund t\u00eb pishin\u00ebs dhe nxori q\u00eb andej dollarin e argjendt\u00eb. Pasaniku e takoi n\u00eb buz\u00eb t\u00eb pishin\u00ebs dhe i tha: \u201cKurr\u00eb nuk m\u00eb shkonte nd\u00ebr mend se dikush do guxonte ta b\u00ebnte k\u00ebt\u00eb, por q\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj se jam burr\u00eb q\u00eb e mbaj fjal\u00ebn, ti merr nj\u00eb milion dollar\u00eb, pron\u00ebsin\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>e tok\u00ebs time dhe dor\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs sime p\u00ebr grua.\u201d \u201cNuk dua gj\u00eb\u00a0tjet\u00ebr,\u201d – u p\u00ebrgjigj burri, \u201cve\u00e7 t\u00eb di se kush m\u00eb shtyu n\u00eb pishin\u00eb!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb ndiheni p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn kur ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0si\u00e7 e keni pritur. Ndieheni sikur jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb pishin\u00eb plot me\u00a0krokodil\u00eb t\u00eb uritur. Ne nuk kemi ndonj\u00eb zgjidhje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00a0ju, por Per\u00ebndia ka nj\u00eb plan q\u00eb do t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb p\u00ebr martesat\u00a0tona. Ky plan quhet: T\u00eb dy bashk\u00eb ose t\u00eb dy nj\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per\u00ebndia krijoi burra dhe gra q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ju mund t\u00eb zbuloni t\u00eb qenit nj\u00eb kur e\u00a0pranoni bashk\u00ebshortin\/en si nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb nga Per\u00ebndia. Per\u00ebndia\u00a0do q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb shoku m\u00eb i ngusht\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrmbushur nevojat tuaja p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, intime.\u00a0Bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb armiku juaj!<\/span><\/p>\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb burrat dhe grat\u00eb kan\u00eb frik\u00eb se mos jan\u00eb\u00a0martuar me personin e gabuar. Qet\u00ebsia e brendshme ju siguron\u00a0se mund t\u00eb keni besim tek Per\u00ebndia. Ai i sjell njer\u00ebzit bashk\u00eb n\u00eb\u00a0nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb i mposht rrethanat. Per\u00ebndia ka n\u00eb zem\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0mir\u00ebn p\u00ebr ty dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb Per\u00ebndi i dashuris\u00eb, i rregullit dhe i\u00a0dhembshuris\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb sovran dhe mund t\u2019i besosh gjithmon\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Plani i Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00eb p\u00ebrfshin tri\u00a0p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi: Ju duhet \u201ct\u00eb lini\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb bashkoheni<\/a>\u201d dhe \u201ct\u00eb b\u00ebheni\u00a0nj\u00eb mish\u201d. N\u00eb Bib\u00ebl thuhet (Marku 10:7-8): \u201cP\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye nj\u00eb\u00a0burr\u00eb do ta l\u00ebr\u00eb baban\u00eb dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tij dhe do t\u00eb marr\u00eb gruan e\u00a0tij dhe t\u00eb dy do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni nj\u00eb mish. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ata nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb\u00a0dy, por nj\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb l\u00ebsh prind\u00ebrit\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Kur martohemi, secili prej nesh ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00ebn\u00a0q\u00eb jetonte kur ishte beqar dhe t\u00eb filloj\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Kjo\u00a0\u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i t\u00ebrheq shum\u00eb nga ne n\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb, s\u00eb pari\u00a0mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr ta nd\u00ebrtuar k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb re s\u00eb bashku. Por, shum\u00eb\u00a0nga ne nuk e l\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e beqarit.<\/span><\/p>\n

Largimi n\u00ebnkupton nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb vendos pavar\u00ebsi emocionale\u00a0nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre. (Dhe kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb\u00a0nj\u00eb \u00e7ift ta l\u00ebr\u00eb emocionalisht dhe fizikisht sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve.)\u00a0\u00c7iftet duhet t\u00eb shk\u00ebputen nga var\u00ebsia e prind\u00ebrve, n\u00eb kontekstin\u00a0e nderimit q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. Burrat dhe grat\u00eb duhet t\u2019u drejtohen\u00a0bashk\u00ebshorteve\/\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtimi i tyre t\u00eb z\u00ebr\u00eb\u00a0vendin e duhur.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse \u00e7iftet vazhdojn\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb varen nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

do t\u00eb jen\u00eb si burri dhe gruaja q\u00eb erdh\u00ebn t\u00eb k\u00ebshilloheshin, sepse ishin t\u00eb varur financiarisht nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre. Gruaja i k\u00ebrkonte t\u00eb atit q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhej garant financiar p\u00ebr ta kur ata b\u00ebnin zgjedhjet e gabuara. <\/span><\/p>\n

Kjo e ndaloi burrin t\u00eb piqej dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrballej me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

P\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb zgjedhjet e duhura dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr zgjedhjet q\u00eb ai b\u00ebri p\u00ebr familjen e tij. Ai po <\/span>humbiste respektin p\u00ebr veten si burr\u00eb dhe kjo po minonte\u00a0respektin e gruas p\u00ebr t\u00eb si bashk\u00ebshort.\u00a0Kur \u00e7iftet i l\u00ebn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tyre, ata e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb brenda\u00a0kontekstit t\u00eb respektit, dashuris\u00eb, admirimit dhe miratimit p\u00ebr\u00a0pun\u00ebn q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i rritur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Disa fusha ku duhet patur kujdes, jan\u00eb: pushimet dhe\u00a0traditat. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

P\u00ebr asgj\u00eb nuk diskutohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn\u00a0se si do t\u2019i kalojm\u00eb pushimet<\/a>? N\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e kujt do t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb\u00a0dhe kur do t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb? Ajo q\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb dim\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se ne\u00a0jemi nj\u00eb familje e re tani dhe nd\u00ebrsa mund t\u00eb duam t\u00eb ruajm\u00eb\u00a0disa nga ato tradita, kemi nevoj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i japim nj\u00ebri-tjetrit lirin\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar tradita t\u00eb reja, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr familjen ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr fush\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn duhet t\u00eb kemi kujdes<\/span>,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0q\u00eb e kemi p\u00ebrmendur tashm\u00eb: financat. Po ju ndihmojn\u00eb\u00a0prind\u00ebrit n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb financiare? Po i plot\u00ebsoni t\u00eb ardhurat\u00a0tuaja me t\u00eb tyret?<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00eb fundi, \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe \u00e7\u00ebshtja e jet\u00ebs private. A din\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\u00a0gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr familjen t\u00ebnde q\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorti\/ja juaj nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0merren vesh? A mund t\u00eb keni besim? Ne nuk do ta kemi kurr\u00eb\u00a0at\u00eb lloj intimiteti q\u00eb duam n\u00eb martes\u00eb, n\u00ebse nj\u00ebri bashk\u00ebshort ka\u00a0frik\u00eb se ato q\u00eb thuhen mes t\u00eb dyve nuk do t\u00eb mbeten mes tyre.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gjithashtu, duhet ta braktisim stilin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb beqarit q\u00eb\u00a0b\u00ebnim para martes\u00ebs. <\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Nj\u00ebri prej ndryshimet m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira q\u00eb\u00a0duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb punojm\u00eb n\u00eb grup. Duket e\u00a0leht\u00eb, por p\u00ebrfshin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se t\u00eb b\u00ebsh pjes\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn\u00a0martes\u00eb. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb duhet nj\u00eb ndryshim t\u00ebr\u00ebsor n\u00eb t\u00eb menduarin\u00a0ton\u00eb. Nuk ka m\u00eb dy individ\u00eb, por nj\u00eb grup.<\/span><\/p>\n

Duhet t\u00eb sigurohemi se e kemi l\u00ebn\u00eb jet\u00ebn e beqarit,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

zakonet\u00a0e m\u00ebparshme, t\u00eb cilave iu q\u00ebndronim besnik\u00eb, dhe se jemi\u00a0shk\u00ebputur nga prind\u00ebrit para se t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb t\u2019i bashk\u00ebngjitemi\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Njer\u00ebzit e mendojn\u00eb shpesh k\u00ebt\u00eb, ngaq\u00eb shum\u00eb martesa\u00a0nuk po ia dalin n\u00eb krye- se plani i martes\u00ebs duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i gabuar.\u00a0Sidoqoft\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ky rasti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Plani q\u00eb krijoi Per\u00ebndia funksionon.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ky plan p\u00ebrfshin bashk\u00ebshort\u00eb q\u00eb i l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb gjith\u00eb sa\u00a0u takojn\u00eb zakoneve t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme, t\u00eb cilave iu q\u00ebndronin besnik\u00eb, dhe stileve t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme t\u00eb jetes\u00ebs (planet dhe synimet\u00a0e ve\u00e7anta) p\u00ebr t\u2019u bashkuar me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Ky \u201cbashkim\u201d i\u00a0referohet nj\u00eb nj\u00ebsie t\u00eb fort\u00eb, t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme, e lidhur bashk\u00eb\u00a0nga p\u00ebrkushtimi, dashuria dhe pranimi i pakusht\u00ebzuar, q\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrfundon n\u00eb nj\u00eb nj\u00ebsi t\u00eb nd\u00ebrthurur, shum\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb nga\u00a0\u00e7\u2019ishte secili individ m\u00eb vete.<\/span><\/p>\n

Asnj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie tjet\u00ebr njer\u00ebzore, as me prindin, as me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn,\u00a0<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

nuk duhet ta tejkaloj\u00eb lidhjen nd\u00ebrmjet burrit dhe gruas.\u00a0Martesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim bes\u00eblidhjeje, nj\u00eb betim q\u00eb i b\u00ebhet\u00a0Per\u00ebndis\u00eb dhe bashk\u00ebshortit\/es, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta dashur, por edhe\u00a0p\u00ebr t\u2019i q\u00ebndruar besnik\/e dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar me durim n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u2019i bashk\u00ebngjitemi apo\u00a0t\u2019i bashk\u00eblidhemi bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u2019i bashk\u00eblidhesh do t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201ct\u2019i bashk\u00ebngjitesh\u201d, t\u00eb formosh\u00a0nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb p\u00ebrhershme. Q\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00eblidhemi, duhet t\u00eb marrim\u00a0nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim. Ne duhet q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim ta braktisim jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0m\u00ebparshme dhe m\u00eb pas t\u2019i bashk\u00eblidhemi apo t\u2019i bashk\u00ebngjitemi\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb. Bashk\u00eblidhje do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0jet\u00eb s\u00eb bashku.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb zakoni t\u00eb bashk\u00eblidhjes apo t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt n\u00eb martes\u00eb, <\/span><\/h2>\n

shpesh gjendet nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim konkurence,\u00a0madje kund\u00ebrshtimi. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, koncepti p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar\u00a0bashk\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapur.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por, ne nuk e marrim modelin e martes\u00ebs nga kultura jon\u00eb, ne e marrim at\u00eb nga Bibla.<\/span><\/strong>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Per\u00ebndia d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ne t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb\u00a0var\u00ebsi nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri, t\u00eb kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, t\u2019i besojm\u00eb\u00a0nj\u00ebri-tjetrit dhe t\u00eb punojm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Shpesh do t\u2019ju q\u00eblloj\u00eb t\u00eb shihni nj\u00eb \u00e7ift q\u00eb duket v\u00ebrtet i suksessh\u00ebm nga ana e jashtme dhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb shikoni pak m\u00eb nga af\u00ebr, do t\u00eb shihni dy individ\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm. Por ata jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm duke b\u00ebr\u00eb secili pun\u00ebn e vet. Aty nuk ka partneritet, nuk punohet n\u00eb grup. Secili po ndjek synimet individuale. Ata jan\u00eb si \u201cbeqar\u00eb t\u00eb martuar\u201d. N\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00eb martese q\u00eb ndjek planin e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb gjendet nj\u00eb\u00a0<\/span>burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb bashkuar dhe punojn\u00eb s\u00eb\u00a0bashku p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat q\u00ebllime.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per\u00ebndia na thot\u00eb n\u00eb Bib\u00ebl se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb grua do t\u00eb\u00a0b\u00ebhen nj\u00eb mish. Intimiteti fizik \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehja e p\u00ebrmbushjes\u00a0t\u00ebr\u00ebsore t\u00eb t\u00eb qenit nj\u00eb n\u00eb martes\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eb b\u00ebhemi nj\u00eb mish i vet\u00ebm\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n

Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz habiten kur m\u00ebsojn\u00eb se Per\u00ebndia e miraton\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien seksuale. Seksi \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhurata e\u00a0Per\u00ebndis\u00eb p\u00ebr ju si \u00e7ift p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrdorur n\u00eb kontekstin e martes\u00ebs.\u00a0Ai d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ne ta shijojm\u00eb seksin. Profesor Howard\u00a0Hendricks ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cNe nuk duhet t\u00eb na vij\u00eb turp t\u00eb diskutojm\u00eb\u00a0p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb Per\u00ebndia nuk pati turp ta krijonte.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse nuk flasim p\u00ebr seksin, <\/span><\/h2>\n

e l\u00ebm\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb t\u00eb medias\u00a0p\u00ebrkufizimin se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sh\u00ebndetshme\u00a0seksuale dhe ia l\u00ebm\u00eb at\u00eb televizionit dhe medias. Po a e dini se\u00a0ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb shtat\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb seksi i shfaqur n\u00eb televizion\u00a0t\u00eb kryhet nd\u00ebrmjet nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti t\u00eb pamartuar sesa nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti t\u00eb martuar?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Seksi p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet e martuar trajtohet zakonisht si komik,<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

kurse\u00a0seksi nd\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb pamartuarve pasqyrohet si ngroht\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb fut\u00a0drithmat. Nuk duhet t\u00eb na vij\u00eb turp t\u00eb diskutojm\u00eb hapur p\u00ebr\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e sh\u00ebndetshme seksuale n\u00eb martes\u00eb. Per\u00ebndia\u00a0d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ne ta shijojm\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien seksuale me\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortin\/en.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seksi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb fillon me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim p\u00ebr past\u00ebrti morale.<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Mosbesnik\u00ebria shkat\u00ebrron marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb panum\u00ebrta. Pak burra ose gra kan\u00eb p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim t\u00eb mashtrojn\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorten\/in, por kjo fillon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pafajshme: nj\u00eb kompliment, ndonj\u00eb flirt, tregimi i ndonj\u00eb sekreti. D\u00ebshtimi moral i ngjan zakonisht m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7arjeje t\u00eb ngadalt\u00eb t\u00eb kopertonit t\u00eb makin\u00ebs, sesa nj\u00eb \u00e7arjeje t\u00eb gom\u00ebs. Njer\u00ebzit gjejn\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si t\u00eb mashtrojn\u00eb <\/span>veten deri sa b\u00ebhet tep\u00ebr von\u00eb. <\/span><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr seksin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ruani zemr\u00ebn tuaj. Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

Ne mund t\u00eb mos jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm me zemrat\u00a0tona dhe tradhtia bashk\u00ebshortore mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb forma t\u00eb tjera\u00a0p\u00ebrve\u00e7 mosbesnik\u00ebris\u00eb fizike. Tradhtia emocionale (t\u00eb treguarit\u00a0e gj\u00ebrave dhe ndjenjave intime, q\u00eb ne nuk ia themi\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es ton\u00eb, dikujt tjet\u00ebr) mund t\u00eb d\u00ebmtoj\u00eb rend\u00eb nj\u00eb\u00a0marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie apo ta ndaloj\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb rritet. Ka dhe tipe t\u00eb tjera\u00a0tradhtish: karriera<\/a>, sportet, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, interneti, madje edhe\u00a0peshkimi.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni hapa drejt arritjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb martese t\u00eb fort\u00eb,<\/span>Martes\u00eb t\u00eb Suksesshme<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n

duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr nevojat emocionale t\u00eb\u00a0bashk\u00ebshortit\/es tuaj dhe duke m\u00ebsuar t\u2019i plot\u00ebsoni ato!\u00a0Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira martesore modelojn\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtim dhe\u00a0dashuri, dhe m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar dashurin\u00eb e\u00a0pakusht\u00ebzuar \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetesh n\u00eb fuqin\u00eb e Per\u00ebndis\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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